Growth Mindset
Nothing great has come from individuals with fixed mindsets. We all know someone that refuses to be open to new ideas, is stubborn and has no desire to change. Challenge yourself to adopt a growth mindset. Challenges and obstacles will remain to declare war on you and how you react to its daily battles will define your current happiness and overall quality of life. You have the power to control how you handle situations by the way you embrace it. Which one do you want more, the pain of staying where you are or the pain of growth?
Failure is not always a bad thing. If you are able to face your failures and learn from it then you will come out stronger and more prepared the next time around. Fail forward to success. Don’t get bitter, get better. Your immediate problems can be your biggest life lessons. You simply just have to change your perspective towards the positive lessons. Agreed that many things in life could be argued to have absolutely no value, death, starvation and so on. However, as you learn to grow through those challenges you may be able to take those lessons and mentor someone else on how to go through a similar situation. In all situations ask yourself, "Where is this lesson in this?" and you will find something of value from it.
Let go and accept the reality, learn from it, rid yourself of the victim mentality and fail forward.